They just don't know

People think they know you. They think they know how you’re handling a situation. But the truth is no one knows. No one knows what happens after you leave them, when you’re lying in bed or sitting over your breakfast alone and all you want to do is cry or scream. They don’t know what’s going on inside your head — the mind-numbing cocktail of anger and sadness and guilt. This isn’t their fault. They just don’t know. And so they pretend and they say you’re doing great when you’re really not. And this makes everyone feel better. Everybody but you.


from Lessons Learned In Life's

To love or to be loved?

I once asked an old man,
which is more important,
to love or to be loved?

He replied,
Which is more important to a bird,
the left wing or the right wing?

~Unknown